My husband gets on aol IM and pretends he's me, trying to get information from the other man. Tonight he got the OM going, saying all kinds of things that aren't true, that I have no idea why he is saying and I don't care. This is like a nightmare, I don't know what to do. He's done this before, and then he accuses me of lying because of whatever the OM might say, I've never spoken to the other guy on IM, not even when it was going on. I think I'm having a panic attack, this is crazy!!!