I agree with John fully, but only you can decide when enough is enough.
Case in point - I just met with STBXW at my house. She was looking at me too long like she wanted to do something with me. Since I have my heart for another now, if she were to have made a sexual advance at me I would have pushed her away much the same as Dan did with you.
Now had I not had another gal in the wings, I would be more than willing to happily engage in pressing bellies together with STBXW regardless of what she had done over the past. Us guys can be a bit primal and have no problem having sex without love.
BobbiJo - it pains me to read of your plight over the last year and I hope you can get somewhat out of limbo land soon.
