BBJ, Sorry you are feeling down tonight. I wish I could pick you up somehow. Perhaps it's time for a dose of reality....sometimes I like some of my friends to smack me around a little. There is not much of it that goes on on these boards...it is very politically correct around here (maybe with a few exceptions). Here goes...I hope you do not take this the wrong way. As a man, there is no way in hell that I would have refused your advances the other night nor would I have been sleeping in another bed unless my mind and heart were elsewhere...actually I think that even if my heart was not there, I would probably follow through. I always had my suspicions...especially when he slept on the couch....but after the package episode, I would give 50 / 1 odds that other woman is back.. So I ask again is this a deal breaker...if you still say no, then you have to continue living the way you are (ie. sleep alone, no sex... etc). When you get fed up like I did, you walk and try not to look back. This is not your fault. I commend you for your perseverance and your love for Dan. My opinion he is not worthy of a woman like you. It pains me to say these things because I went through the same things you are. In retrospect I should have cut my losses at least six months ago. Nobody can say that we never tried.
