Just to chime in on this. The only really good responses I got when I pulled way back and went my own way. Of course then I start to get close and she pulls away again. It has worked for me the past, may be worth a try for you and S@S.
I keep telling myself this.
But I see a clear difference in our spouses. Not that it wouldn't work, but yours was still VERY attached to you. I could just see it, with her being so jealous and accusatory of you.
Mine ain't no where near that.
But yes, I agree I need to try it for a longer period than I have in the past. Hard to tell whats best.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
