Wow! That's about the grandest thing anyone has ever said to me. I'm speechless. Well, never completely..... just glad you are sticking around and I know you can help others. There another woman I wished you could talk to, but right now is probably not the best time......I am kind of concerened she is backing out on us instead of trying to do what we recommend. And if she thought that your R was headed for D, she would take off running. She is so filled with fear until she can't do anything. Just pray for her Amy. I have come out and asked her if she is a Christian and I've said other things to try to get a comment out of her about it, but she won't respond to that part. Anyway, there is always somebody around here to care about and want to help. You will be a great addition to the "helpers" and I say that b/c you are a survivor and that makes you a success story. People, like this lady, think that there is no life after D or if their WAS doesn't return home, but there is. Of course, we want to bust a divorce if possible, but all cases are not that way. Some of the best people around the board are those whose M didn't survive, but they did and they can really be a big help to others. You can too, and I hope you'll consider doing that, which BTW, I have seen you doing that on a few places I came across. Good for you.
Anyway, this lady is saying some of the same things that I heard you say in the beginning of your stitch, but you learned differently, didn't you, hon? You also learned very quickly. You are a completely differently type of personality (I think)from her. I am very concerned about her.....just don't have a good feeling. Anyway, please pray for her.....God will know who she is and we need to pray that she will come to know Him, if she doesn't already.
Thanks, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
just glad you are sticking around and I know you can help others. There another woman I wished you could talk to, but right now is probably not the best time......I am kind of concerened she is backing out on us instead of trying to do what we recommend. And if she thought that your R was headed for D, she would take off running. She is so filled with fear until she can't do anything. Just pray for her Amy. I have come out and asked her if she is a Christian and I've said other things to try to get a comment out of her about it, but she won't respond to that part. Anyway, there is always somebody around here to care about and want to help. You will be a great addition to the "helpers" and I say that b/c you are a survivor and that makes you a success story. People, like this lady, think that there is no life after D or if their WAS doesn't return home, but there is. Of course, we want to bust a divorce if possible, but all cases are not that way. Some of the best people around the board are those whose M didn't survive, but they did and they can really be a big help to others. You can too, and I hope you'll consider doing that, which BTW, I have seen you doing that on a few places I came across. Good for you.
