True, You've changed so much..both inside and out that you just sparkle! I bet it was fun to sit back and watch them try to guess who you were.
It sounds like you've got a few things planned for the week. Enjoy them and the company that is all around you. You are never alone!
Enjoy the rest of the week!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you for posting on my thread & checking on me!! I think about you so much, you sound like you are doing well. I know it has to be hard & you have those gloomy days, as I do but you sound very perky!
Snodderly, again you are so right!!! We don't know what the future holds, all we can do is look at today. You have some comforting words!!
Hi nlt, Thanks for popping in. I did have quite a good week. The musical I went to was also good, and yesterday I went out to a book presentation with a friend.
Today we had very windy conditions and it already started to snow, just like the weather forecast said. My sister wanted to come but changed her mind the last minute. So I will stay in the warm and cosy home while it's cold and wet outside. I don't think I will even go food shopping but eat what I have.
H thinks it would be fair if I paid half for the D process! Of course, he already had to pay once before so he thinks it is not fair that he has to pay for everything a second time. But I will tell him that I don't want the D and will surely not pay for it.
I also talked to MIL who told me that H still does not let anybody know where he is. It was her birthday a few days ago. At least she received a card but nothing else.
H would also like me to deal with a few other things regarding the property but I already told him that I cannot do it. - He got himself in a mess and I should bail him out. I really don't know what is going on in his head.
ha TL..funny how they think.....my h was living with ow and expected me to pay our bills to subsidize his affair....uhmmmm.....no
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
TL what nice posts here. They just make me tear up. I am certainly not an advocate of D and really don't know what I would do with myself if it was presented to me.
Be strong TL and take care of you, but I like the idea of keeping the light on.
I hope you have a nice weekend!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Hi Glamgirl, Thank you for your compliment. Yes, I will leave the light on although I have the feeling that it is for nothing. Somehow, I just cannot imagine being with somebody else, although I would quite like some male company occasionally. Even my MIL said I have to move on! I find it very difficult to just leave everything behind.
I just talked to h's mom and dad. They asked if h was home yet. They said maybe by the holidays. I said I want that, but I don't think so. They said they wanted him to come home and live with his family.
They are supportive of me, but also realize that nobody can tell my h what he SHOULD do.
I couldn't imagine being with another man, expecially the sex part. Hopefully I won't have to go there.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I totally agree, I can't see myself with anyone else. It's just so hard to even go there in my mind right now.
I also agree that you need to insist that if your H wants the D he has to pay for all of it & has to do the work himself.
You hang in there & thank you for posting to my thread!! I hope you have a great weekend & stay warm. It's supposed to be down to 19 degrees here tonight.
