All's well that ends well. And I'm starting to think this may end well. Am I bi-polar?

Mon and Tue nights I saw X at because of kids. OM was at her place when I went by Mon night. I stayed a little longer than usual because X and I needed to talk about kids and I fixed a couple of things at the house.

She called me Wed because she was worried about the economy.

She called me Thurs night but we didn't see each other face to face.

So today I went by X's work after I got off work, took her a soda. I saw OM's car parked there but went in anyway. OM looked irritated when I walked in, shuffled his feet a little. X seemed surprise and a little embarassed to see me in front of OM. Maybe I am becoming the OM. I gave her the soda I brought for her (OM brought her nothing). She then asked where the kids were as I often bring them by to see her. I didn't have them as I wasn't supposed to pick them up today. I refrained from saying, "I don't have them, just came by to see you." I left quickly because of the percieved discomfort. They both pulled out their cellphones and began to fiddle with them.

X called me a little while later as she was leaving work to talk. She said she wanted to thank me for bringing her a soda. I can't help but wonder if she was uncomfortable talking to me in front of OM. That's the second time I've gotten that impression and i see it as a good thing. For the 2nd time this week she mentioned she wasn't sure what she would do for Thanksgiving. I have the kids all next week as last year she had the kids and OM celebrated Thanksgiving with her. I can't help but wonder if she is hinting at something and the next time (if) she mentions this I'm going to ask if she wants to have Thanksgiving dinner with just me and the kids.

That would be a really good excuse for me to clean my apartment.

Last edited by sleeper; 11/21/08 11:41 PM.

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13