I think I am the poster child for overthinking / analyzing things, no? So, I know what you are talking about.
NY....well, you could go stand-by. Bet you'd get an incredible deal!! ;0) I actually want to try that myself, one of the times he has the kids for a long weekend. Just see where I can end up. Looks like I might catch up with Barbie and Lissie over the weekend, either Fri night or Sat morning!
And I'll ditto some of the sentiments that have been floating around here....you are a very special man. I remember you asked me once why I thought that. Are you starting to see it, even a little?
