You are right FG I shouldn't have to ask, but a 180 for me is including h in decsion making and even the little stuff. Rather than just spending, now I try to include my h. Otherwise some of his comments are there you go making decisions on your own again.

Now the last few v-mails regarding this he never responded, so he was either very busy or wasn't concerned that I spent the money.

I am trying to remember the love and respect thing.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"