You are right FG I shouldn't have to ask, but a 180 for me is including h in decsion making and even the little stuff. Rather than just spending, now I try to include my h. Otherwise some of his comments are there you go making decisions on your own again.
Now the last few v-mails regarding this he never responded, so he was either very busy or wasn't concerned that I spent the money.
I am trying to remember the love and respect thing.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
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