A big thank you to you as well! I think I ended up in a great place with lots of people who are capable of empathizing.
You are right about the blaming part. It is very hard, especially since she keeps blaming me for the situation. So far I have been able to stick to my plan and I hope I will be emotionally able to keep doing it.
What do you suggest for Monday's MC session? I am currently thinking of letting her talk as much as possible, but at some point I need to tell my version of the story as well. I guess it depends on the C, maybe she is able to ask her the right questions.
Thanks again for the great support. I know I am in the right place.
AN
M43 W45, M17 S9 D6 Bomb: 11/11/08 EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ? Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09 Healed, but still heading for D My situation