FG believe me I know. I remember so much just blurting things out because of anger or resentment.

For months and months I walked around biting my tongue, but I knew at the time I couldn't address anything with h without him feeling defensive and angry. So I just let all the comments go and tried so hard to agree with everything h said.

FG try it as an experiment. When your h says something just smile and agree with all that he says. Do this for a least a month and see if he doesn't act differently like opens up more seems to enjoy your company.

I did this, but I had to work it for months, but now look at my h.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"