FG this is tough, but if you want to mend the m, forget about questioning his behavior. Save that for mc. They don't want to hear what you have to say.
A simple your right h, I'll put the big girl pants on. I know sounds rdiculous, but it will go far in the long haul. See how I said long haul.
Your goal is that you want your h to see himself secure and wondering why he left the m to begin with. Don't let him remember why he left.
Hugs!
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