Hmmm. Well, first I am proud that you gave her the letter. But I wonder if your W realizes that with a discsusion of this calibar, there will never be a perfect time.

That being said, my only concern is that you both do go back to the status quo. My fear is that these issues have been simmering so long between the two of you that both of you have gotten complacent. I know you are frustrated, but I do think that your W will sweep it under the rug as long as she can.

Still, you know her best. I agree that you should give her some time, as long as it isn't too much time (by that I mean don't give her like six months...these are issues that need to at least BEGIN to be addressed). Rome wasn't built in a day, and I expect this decision won't be made in a day either, but somewhere, sometime soon, discussions have to at least begin.

(((Jeff)))

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..