Well, maybe it depends how you ask him? Would it be good to tell him why you want to meet? I hope he does say yes and seeing as he is still contacting you, theres a good chance he would want to? From an outsider.. you seem very detached and havent given him much to go on.. he took a big risk with what he said in his email and it seems you have been pretty 'cool' with him? And maybe thats because you were so detached and also sort of dating other guys?
Perhaps if you take a step toward him, it would make it easier for him to step toward you...
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread