Crisis averted , I ended up being the number one contender for a role at the company I worked for as well as having an offer from another company. I decided to take the offer with the new firm as they are a stronger company and the role suits my circumstances way better. On the M side the only changes are with me . I dont see my M being saved and actualy struggle to convince myself that it should be. So I have hopped off the rollercoaster . W is still on the ride though but she has no ammo left , well nothing effective anyway. I have a lot of work ahead of me bedding down this new position in very difficult economic times , so that and my kids is where my focus needs to be. I have a plan to settle out W fairly when the time comes.
