Before her dad passed, I was doing a pretty good job of staying away from her. His passing changed things, and I did what felt like the right thing to do. But it made me hopeful and scared at the same time and felt the need to protect my self.
You ABSOLUTELY did the right thing with her Dad's passing. All I meant was, its just so easy for us to get sucked back in. We provide emotional support, which leads to feelings of emotional closeness, but we tend to not be able to pull back and give them the chance to miss us.
I sure hope your baby gets better soon and take care of yourself.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
