Pulling back can be good if you show her what she misses, but giving her "just enough" isn't really pulling back.
Expand on this for me. I assume your saying to pull way, way back. Dark.
I agree with what you say, but some day, I may HAVE to move on.
I think if I went to see the movie, I'd be a blubbering fool. I don't like getting emotional, but the songs were still very much appreciated.
Maybe its good to get emotional sometimes. I'm usually the serious one, the one that hides his emotions. I'm not upset at myself for sending the email, with the song in it.
Like I told her, I can't leave things left unsaid. At least until, if and when, she D's me.
Last edited by hopeful4her; 11/21/0808:47 PM.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."