I've known my lawyer for 30 years; got me through my first D far better than anticipated (and that was an ugly one too). This is part of his strategy to make H look as foolish as possible in front of the judge, but I think he underestimated the severity of my situation.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012