happy friday! i dont work and i am still always glad when friday rolls around. its freezing here!!! i hate it!
my D's share a room, they really need to get it organized before xmas too. I too need to clean up around here, I am cooking thanksgiving for my inlaws, should be interesting eh?
hugs to you!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Have you ever tried "no contact" w/your H. I believe it's referred to as "going dark" in DB.
I've ready many of your posts, and it just seems like he really depends on you for emotional support -- since he's totally run his life off into a ditch.
Do you ever wonder how he'd react if you weren't there to lean on?
I think you're doing a great job handling your extremely difficult sitch - I just noticed that he seems like he needs you.
Hi Corey! D and I will be having a Wii night tonight. I'm no good at Rock Band. I tried it twice and I sucked! Sounds like you have a fun weekend planned!
Well for anyone that has nothing better to do, theres the links to most of my sitch, before my name change. I still can't seem to do the rename thing...I'm remedial like that.
(((Dar))) have a good time with the Wii tonight.
(((Lost))) anytime...VRB sounds fun.
(((BG))) hope you warm up soon hon. Take care my sister.
(((DW))) No, I have never gone NC with my H even though I KNOW it would change things. I guess I've always just had the fear that if I did that then he wouldn't ever call me again and then have to realize that I have been the one that needed him way more than he EVER needed me. Stupid huh? I know that probably isn't the case, because I am his ONLY emotional support, but its just the fearful part of me. What a loser. BUT, I am getting better and the fear is almost gone. I do love my H, even after ALL of the crap, I do, but I can't go on this way for very much longer.
Thanks all.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
You are not stupid and not a loser. I was just asking if you'd thought about it and you have.
If you get to the end of your rope, it's easier -- that's when I went NC w/H for four months. But if you're going to do it, you have to be really ready to do it.
Sounds like you have a fun weekend planned!