D was a good mess last night. After we got home and settled down, her thoughts must've got to her because she kept asking why he does this and why he says he'll call and/or come over but doesn't. I normally don't tell D if he's goign to call or come over since he bails more often than not. I told her this time though since he told me to tell her he promised to pick her up yesterday. Then he promised that he'd call her last night by 8:30. He called after 9:30 and after I tm'd him for D. I picked up the phone and gave it to D. They spoke for about 5 min and then she said daddy wanted to talk to me. I said hi and he said that he just wanted to say hey really quick. He chatted for a few minutes and asked what was wrong. I told him its been a small hell here with D being upset. He told me "put your big girl pants on and deal with it". I was like "ME? I'm dealing with it. I didn't leave the responsibility I have." I know I shouldn't have said that, but I'm sooooo very tired of him thinking he can talk down to me when I'm holding up the fort! Then he went on to yell to me about how he's so sick of being told what to do, how work sucks for him so badly and how he's sorry he even did any of this. He's a mess and it's just ridiculous to me.
