She asked where are you going? I told her that I was having dinner right after work and after that I was going to (j - a suburb north of town -- one OM lives there).
w: "why are you going there?" me: "(dan) has friends over there." w: "oh, ok!"
I would have said....Dan and I and a few friends are going over to the OM's house and beating the living crap out of him...why do you ask???
