She already works insane hours - and so my impulse was/is to offer to help her - to try to give her more time with the baby - to step in and "fix" things for her...but I just think that might be there wrong thing to do since it is what I've always done.
if she asks then help..if not then let her flounder..do not fix it for her.
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though I do worry about just how much she's going to wear herself out. Still....it was her choice to move out, separate and be "independent" - shouldn't I keep out of it - and let her ride this journey as she must?
detach carlos..Detach..move forward and let her see you moving forward..
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I just wanted to let you know that if you're ever willing, I am open to starting again from scratch. - or is that best left unsaid for now
that will fall on deaf ears and piss her off..it's persueing..
