Oh really I am fine letting someone else have it! "R" is hard enough to achieve!! kat
WHATEVER!!!!!
H4H we both need to let them feel more of the consequences of their choices. You and I both are fixers. Even pleasers if you will. I know if H and I do D, things will change dramatically. We won't have all of our little chats and stuff. I won't be doing and helping him the way that I do now. I guess I've just been so afraid of backing off and him choosing that anyway, I've continued to do things that are to my detriment. You and I have always agreed that we are a lot alike in many ways and I think this is one of them. I think if we were to truly drop the rope (like we have been told countless times) and let them LIVE their choice, we would both see a change in our situations. It may not be immediate, but I do think it would change. I know I have never truly given my H a chance to miss me. To realize what he is giving up because I have been "right there" through this whole mess. You have too...for better or worse, right? Maybe this is something to think about.
Hope your Darling Girl gets better soon. Hope the whole bathtub thing works out...but then you would have two K's and our Karen is not an alphabet girl!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
