WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice II

[dday101798]

i agrre with you, if someone else wants her this way, good luck,. Problem is that they are getting someone who just doesn't give a $%^&.

But guess what? That's not YOUR PROBLEM!

I know it's hard to do (I stumble on this often) but you need stop being concerned about what's going with her life and focus on YOURS.

I've come to learn the past few days from being on here way much more than I should and reading a lot of threads that this whole situation may take a VERY long time to unfold completely. I'm in my fifth month of dealing with OM (knowingly) and near 8th of seperation in various states.

Honestly I wish didn't have to talk to my W at all right now, the less I do the better I feel because currently she is NOT her half the time, but with kids in the mix it gets rough.

As I posted in my own thread, now she is enraged at me because now I'm being the calm parent while whatever she's going through, MLC?, she is the one yelling and screaming all the time at them. This used to be the complete opposite. So, if OM wants a raging 'psycho mom' who does nothing else but drink and smoke herself to sleep, all the power to him.