quick synopsis: M over 8 years W has had multiple A's over the last 3 yrs. W was in rehab in 2006. W had at least 3 OM's in Sept. 08 alone. W dropped bomb on 9/15 We've been separated since, she's lived on/off in the house since that date. right now she stays elsewhere at night; but keeps her stuff in the house.
I'm not sure about taking her back if she decided to come back; so maybe I'm experiencing the desire to walkaway from this. She really hasn't expressed any desire to work it out. We remain civil, really friendly; but the D looms overhead like the Goodyear blimp.
For me I've really dove into finding myself and recovering my identity. I am no longer angry with her and her dramatical antics. I choose not to be because she doesn't care.
so I'm waiting for actions...and I have NO Expectations.
