BND I understand where you are coming from, but is it foreign to expect a h to provide for his family?

Maybe I am a little old fashion, but I still feel the man should be the provider. That is what I expect from my h. I don't think I can change the thinking of my inner core.

When I selected h to marry it seemed that was his beliefs. It's not like he announced that, but it was a given. He paid for everything for years and my income contributed.

I see my h getting sick MWG again from exhaustion and over working himself.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"