BND I understand where you are coming from, but is it foreign to expect a h to provide for his family?
Maybe I am a little old fashion, but I still feel the man should be the provider. That is what I expect from my h. I don't think I can change the thinking of my inner core.
When I selected h to marry it seemed that was his beliefs. It's not like he announced that, but it was a given. He paid for everything for years and my income contributed.
I see my h getting sick MWG again from exhaustion and over working himself.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"