I tried talking with him before he left for "w's house" but he withdrew an dI let it be. Found out later on that my BIL grilled him pretty hard earlier.
I texted W to see if there were any updates to the situation. She intially replied saying there was nothing going on with it. Then all the sudden she texts that the money was mine and he returened it to where he got it from on "my dresser next to a change jar".
A) I don't leave money laying around (now that actually have control of it) and B) I don't ahve a change jar.
As I was trying to text a reply, I kept getting a weird alert on my phone, not being very technically savvy and a little buzzed I didn't know what it meant.
Then I get this blasting text from her saing how evil I am for declining my kids call. So, I call back and explain I was trying to text her back and didn't know what was going on with my phone, she declaired it B/S and threw son on the phone for me to "interrogate"
I again calmly ask him where he got the money from becasu it isn't mine, and if he brought it back where is it? He continued to claim he didn't I try to tell him it's okay now, but you need to make the situation right. All the whil I'm on speaker phone apparently and W starts screaming at him to answer "f'n" me and if he doesn't, he's going to the "f'n" police statioh. I keep telling her to stop yelling at him as that is very counter prodoctive and uncalled for.
This reversal of how our roles used to be sent her into a fit of rage and I backed off and told her that whatever she decides to do about the situation is her choice, however be nice and stop yelling at him.
So, that's the night's main even in a nutshell. Looking forward to getting out tonight. Running joke is that the last time I went out with everyone from work, W was blowing my phone up every 5 minutes to check up on me and now it will be even worse given the fact she's really going to want to know what I'm up to since I'll be in a enviornment far from home and she won't have a grapevine feed as she does when I go to the local pub.
House-mates say she'll probably try and 'dump' the kids again tonight like every Friday night so I can't go out, eh-eh, not this time.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11