WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice II

[dday101798]

I stay off the roller coaster, I really do,

I'd hate to tell you, but just about everything in that post indicates you ARE on the ride.

I guess I should have looked at your thread sooner, we're much the same, all the way down to the resident BIL.

Definately get your self out and spoil yourself sometimes. I started the week off pretty crappy, but since W took it upon herself to take both our kids Mon & Tues I treated myself to dinner and socializing at the pub, worked some magic for gaining a PMA that I've been lacking. We've had to speak the past 2 night due to a problem with one of our sons and W has been very hostile with me yet I did not fire in return, bit my tongue at times, but that's what needs to be done. Like you, I am very hot tempered and I've had my opportunities to take my vengence out on OM many a times. Oddly, other than the fact he courts my W with my kids around, I could care less about him, he wants her in this state, he can have her.

It's very easy to lie to ourselves and say we're okay when the truth is far from it.

Enjoy YOUR time with your daughter and focus your energy there, as a child from a broken home myself, I know what my kids are going through right now, and it sucks.

Hang in man. Someone once told me "it's not how weather the storm, but how dance in the rain", I keep trying to bear that in mind at my darker times.