That is the thing that confuses me. If he can admit to me that he has tried buying things to make himself happy and it didn't work, then why stay for the money?
well BBJ I think it's pretty simple..Dan stands to lose quite a bit in D proceedings unless there was a pre-nup..anything he bought, even though it did not make him happy, is up for grabs in a settlement. Most men don't like to lose their things in a D..and yes, most men look at it just like I said, no matter what the "courts" say......plus over the years men have not come out very well in D proceeedings even thought that is changing..so all that plays into a mans minset on divorce..
Dan is either taking his time getting up enough courage to go file, or he's waiting you out..thinking you'll quit
one thing is certain..someone will get tired, someone will give up..someone will make the first move to get the proceeedings started..