BBJ...JMO..I think you need to take care of you and the kids..The holidays..do what you want to do for you and the kids and don't worry about what he is doing..
Dan is either gonna quit, or do more of the same until you quit..it's pretty simple..
these WAS's are cowards..some are too afraid to fight and some are too afraid to leave and want the LBS to make the decision for them. I know it sucks being in Limbo...I lived it for months, seeing little signs that things were better when in reality they were just more of the same..
only YOU know when you are done..
and of course Dan has not told anyone..it's all par for the course..Kim went to 'family" stuff on my side of the family in order to keep that connection but did not want me to attend any of her families things...
I still think your frinkin awesome BBJ..hang in there.
