well Dan has let it be known that he has attempted to buy things to make him happy...still...all men love their things and don't want to lose those things..
and BBJ...I really don't know what kind of daddy he is but will say that a chitty husband can still be a good daddy..I'm sure that custody issues have rolled around in his head with all those other "rocks" up there.
Mike,
That is the thing that confuses me. If he can admit to me that he has tried buying things to make himself happy and it didn't work, then why stay for the money?
And I know he is/can be a great daddy no matter how he has hurt me. It is hard to reconcile the great daddy with the fact that he is becoming a terrible example of a husband for my son and daughter, but it the strictly 'daddy' role, he is awesome.
I guess I just don't want to feel that right now any nice things I see from H are just manipulations of me to get what he wants...
