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It would be the hardest thing you have ever done. But, you could do it. I have no doubt. It takes two, though. She would have to do the work as well.

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I've always thought she would want to work it out with you, if she ever gets her life straightened out a little. You would/could do it for the kids. But yeah, only if your W is ready to make big changes, which will probably be too late for her. I think you will already be moved on, by the time she starts to get her act together. And that's her loss. Karen


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Would you like to watch Hancock sometime? I just asked everyone so it usually takes a few days to get everyone having the movie. Let me know.

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Hancock won't ship until the 25th but I am thinking keep it in the queue and watch Vantage Point?

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Hey Kat - never heard of Hancock, so I did a web search found official site and watched a preview - looks good

Having movie night with the kids tomorrow we are watching Wall.e

Thanks for the invitation

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Let me know what you think of Wall-e. I'm kinda overprotective, moviewise. Can't have bad language or innuendos of any kind. I heard it is a little love story. Let me know if you think it is appropriate for a 6 year old boy. Thanks.

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WDID,

We took our kids to see Wall-E, and I thought it was fine, and like you, I'm very conservative. A VERY good movie, too!!

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Ok. Maybe we'll do a movie night tonight, too, then. \:\) Thanks, Pup.

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WDID and Karen, I don't think W will ever want to reconcile, would require her to give up to much of her freedom, she likes being on her own, no responsibilities, just pops in when she wants to get her fix of the kids.

She took kids today, told me so I could have some time to myself, which is fine, picked them up a 12:00 and will drop them off at 4:00pm

When she stopped by, of course she had stuff for the kids new jackets and clothes. She brought me a bed cover/quilt, to small, so she took that back. I don't like the cover I have but it will do until I have some extra money to spend. Maybe after christmas. She went up into the storage room and pulled out the fall wreaths and put them on the front and back doors.

I have the day to myself now, going to work on cleaning. Also working on moving on with my life, reading "Change Your Life and Everyone In It" by Michele W Davis

I quit smoking before W moved out and started up again, to much stress this year with everything going wrong, set 12/22 as the day I will quite for good. This is the day (last year) I found out about OM, going to turn this day into the day I begin my life again.

Everyday I get the mail I get nervous, looking for D paperwork, don't know why its taking so long, only asset that needs to be divided up is my 401K

WDID - Wall-E was a very good, kids loved it, they watched it twice already.

Remembered everyone in church today WDID, Puppy, Karen, Cat, Kat, Sara, lwb, H4H, and everyone else including my W.

Thank you all for looking in on me.

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WDID and Karen, I don't think W will ever want to reconcile, would require her to give up to much of her freedom, she likes being on her own, no responsibilities, just pops in when she wants to get her fix of the kids.


Yep. Same case here.

Glad you have some time to yourself. Have you guys got Christmas worked out? Are you going to invite W over to spend it with you guys?

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