Mornin', h4h. I, too, think you needed to say the things you did in the email. There is nothing wrong with emotion. In fact, if you didn't have it it would be more worrisome. You are fighting for her.
I, too, think going to the movie by yourself would be a good thing. There is a part in the movie where the husband cooks a big meal, sets the table extravagantly, lights candles, as a surprise, etc. and his wife comes in, looks at it, and walks out. You are choosing to love her even though it seesm like she isn't loving you back. You hate the "power" she has over you, but that "power" is called love. You love her. And, your words to her were powerful.
Does she have the choice to get a divorce? Yes. But, that is not your choice. By you continuing your love she can't disregard what she is doing. You put it out there. Let's see what she does. Expect the best, and prepare for the worst.
As for the dropping off. I've noticed that a long time ago. That's why I said something about it seeming like they are at her house all the time. But, really, you are dropping off and picking up there all the time. Not making it so convenient for her will help her feel what she is doing as well.
HOpe your little girl feels better.
Hang in there. This is going to be a hard day for you I think. Emotional. We are here for you, and lean on God while you're waiting.
