I am seeing customers with my boss this week so I do not have access to the internet as much as usual.....but I am fine. Keeping busy will help me in the long run.
W called me this morning...left a message...something about arrangements for this weekend....I just now responded.
Working hard to detach...I will make it...her effen loss!
D7 is off school tommorow so I am hanging with her tonight...need to bring her back on Saturday....her Kiddie party organized by her mom. D7 asked why i could not attend? I said if you want me there, nobody will keep me away.
Just put D7 to bed....another little bout of the tears....tried my best to comfort her. Breaks my heart but I told her we will get through this and be stronger forever. I will not bring it up again with W because she will twist it around and put the blame on me....I may take some posters' advice and find a counselor for D7...I may even keep it from W. At this point my only concern is her well being.
It hurts so much, impulse can win over logic many times.
Your daughter can feel more comfortable sharing her fears with you which is beautiful. If she's willing to make life difficult with your wife and her partner, she'd be willing to pull at your heart strings too. It's not malicious.. I see it as a child sacrificing themselves for what she believes to be the greater good whether she knows it or not. And counseling would be no doubt help your daughter. *hugs*
You don't know the guy you wife is with. If your daughter doesn't feel comfy with him, it's your wife's baliwick, it's the consequences of HER actions that's up to her to deal with. And as you've told your spouse in the past, you can change visitation.. what I call.. 'live-i-tation'. Go to counseling, find out what works best for your girlie girl.
You're there for your little angel.. not to clean up your wife's messes.. because.. she's not your wife right now. A spouse worthy of being called husband or wife respects, care, trusts their partner in life.
Ack... time to lightly jump off the soap box...
And the BF... I read.. 'best friend'.. 'friend who's a boy'.. a way of saying.. I'm not ready for a girl.
