I just thought it was sort of like our situation. Ex created all this mess and I don't want to even see where he lives, so he has to come and get the kids but we don't do one week on/one week off. He gets them Tuesday night and every other weekend. They balk at that and S16 still won't go if he can find something to do. He doesn't want to spend the night and ex forces them too. If he would be a little giving until he got their trust back but like I said his way or the highway. I don't get in the middle anymore.

So I noticed but just thought it was something you had agreed to since you live out in the boonies and she lives closer to the school etc.

kat

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