It's official.......what now?

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Mishka!!!

CG fancies you! I can tell! No man buys dinner for a girl and says "ah well your single now" without it MEANING something? C'mon, admit it, are you sensing a vibe off of him? Hey, I know the ink is not yet dry on your D, so I dont want to encourage you here, but I thikn you should own it, you ARE attractive to other men! Good for you. He sounds like a lovely guy, he didnt just give you a round of applause like you are a performing seal (sorry! I am sure they are lovely people and meant well) but he took the trouble to ask you how you FEEL about it. Thats lovely.

You said...
"I did ask him a few months ago. He couldn't give me any kind of an answer. I decided that it was pointless to ask again."

...hmm, well its a moving target though isnt it? The convo I had with my ex this week could no way have happened a few months ago, he wasnt ready, I wasnt able and it wasnt 'time'. Things change, people change (not always with help, whoever said that, I changed totally.. just from the shock of him leaving me)..

Also, I wanted to say, watch the self-defeating stuff/closing yourself off? Saying "I decided it was pointless... " is kind of setting yourself up for failure? Its fair enough though if you really arent interested in talking to him, that different. Besides CG sounds like a more interesting person to talk to !

I think you are right that Gabe will tire of her soon. She sounds awful!!

Al xxx