Hey Davidswife, found you here. Glad to see that you have posted. Are you OK physically now?
I agree with others. He might be in MLC, my H is the same age and eventhough C says he is not MLC, he shows MOST of the symptoms, so I am just treating it as if it is MLC. But either way, he has 'controlling' issue. Why is that? Were his parents controlling? Does he still have things to hide? Did you guys talk about why he had the A? It's good that he wants to come back, but now the real hard work starts. He needs to look within himself to see what went wrong so it won't happen again. My H didn't do this work after his 'supposed ONS' so now he is on full-on A. Do you know why he wants to come back to you? (No offence, I am sure you are a terrific person but I think you need to know exactly why so you feel valued or not.)
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
