I just got a glimpse of some of the things above and you said somethihng like what is wrong if you want to climb on the couch with him, etc. From what I have seen with MLCers is that they don't always like this. Yes, they may initiate intimacy of some sort but it is not something that is done regularly and their moods and feelings change at all times. I would not assume or expect this to happen all the time.
They do not like to feel smothered, mothered, be told what to think, feel, what to do.
They like that you would give them space, time, not asking a million questions.
Also, stop being so judgmental and getting mad about if he is staying, leaving, why he does this/that, etc. In order for you to successfully get thru this time, you have to do a lot of letting go and leave him be.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
