I agree with PDT. Without FULL transparency you will never be able to build up trust again. He's hiding something if he is unwilling to do that.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength