my X finally told me what drove her nuts about me. it was that I was never home. during the [censored] storm, she told me that everything I ever did was the reason she rode the strange weenier express.
now that i'm on the outside, i can say that I DO wish that I would have made more time for her. BUT!!! she didn't mind spending the money my long hours provided, she didn't shrug off the new cars, credit cards and the nice houses.
she was bored.
now that I have clear vision. I openly tell women I date that " I don't want to turn all your knobs and flick all your switches"
I want a woman that is strong enough to live without my constant attention. one that can survive without me telling her how special she is, or spend every hour with her.