thank you all you kind words over the last few months. I have been absent from here for quite a while because my life has finaly gotten rolling again and I am moving on but I think you all you guys often. My wife and I are getting our things in order and filing for D soon. I fianly came to see the only thing that we have had betwwen us is a great friendship and all of this pain and resentment was in danger of destroying all that. I am now ok with myself and moving on with my own life that we cna both be free and stay friends. like I said earlier it was not the out come I wanted but it is whats best for me right now and I am ok wiht it.
