Let me begin by saying that I am very sorry for what you are going through. You are one heck of a strong woman.....
I have just caught up since I have not had access to the internet this week...I have to agree with Mike...if a guy does not react to your advances as you desribed them, he has major issues! I also see Kerry's point after Dan's 50% statement....however, I am not sure that he is sticking around because of that. My hypothesis is that the WAS returning who then wants out does not have the guts to drop another bomb and waits for the LBS to quit....don't know if that makes sense.
Bottom line...I am starting to realize that I will undoubtedly be better off in the long run without W....I think you are in the same boat. We don't see it but i am sure if everyone on these boards would be honest they would tell us both to walk and don't look back. The only drawback is the hurt the kids feel...that I will NEVER forgive wife for regardless of it's effect on my health.
