If your wife didn't have LD & you knew you could have sex any time you wanted, would it be on your mind all the time like it is now?
This is a very good question. I suspect that my life would have unfolded in totally different way if I had had an HD partner. Like a hunger that could not be fed properly though, I have wasted a lot of energy on the pursuit of sex. It can be fed in a healthy way, but it never was.
Like an addict with no way to easily get a fix, I spent my time worrying about and trying to get the next one.... or acting out some other behavior trying to fill the void or block out the pain. Some of them where actually good like playing music (GAL activities).
My answer would be NO I would not think of sex constantly if she was HD.
