I wanted to give you my thoughts on the rebound women..... If you go back and look, I had my fair share of "rebound women"..... The thing is I dated them... Got to know them WITHOUT having sex with them....
I did not feel "trying out" a woman before M is the thing for a good Christian guy to do.... Plus, I felt I would be no better than my adulterous exW if I did that..... I also did not want to explain my "adventures" to my new W... I felt she deserved for me to wait for her..... It turns out, my new W was doing the same thing...
It does not mean I was not tempted...... Man, was I tempted several times..... I just kept thinking about saving myself for my new W..... It was well worth it....
Take Care,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"