e-mail your L what you and your daughter need each month -- JUST NECESSITIES -- and don't forget anything.
Then note your income.
Then note your husband's "contributions", and the dates.
The #s should speak for themselves. If he can't see it, get a new L who can.
Puppy
Actually, L sat down with me and we calculated expenses--including things I wouldn't have thought of. So he has the numbers for reference. In fact, he has all the numbers, except of course H's "contributions."
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012