Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
e-mail your L what you and your daughter need each month -- JUST NECESSITIES -- and don't forget anything.

Then note your income.

Then note your husband's "contributions", and the dates.

The #s should speak for themselves. If he can't see it, get a new L who can.

Puppy

Actually, L sat down with me and we calculated expenses--including things I wouldn't have thought of. So he has the numbers for reference. In fact, he has all the numbers, except of course H's "contributions."


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012