New Me - Will WAW ever notice?

[Distressed67]

Pay attention to her. Look her in the eye when she is talking even if she looks away, you keep looking at her. She will come back to you and if your not there she will stop talking. Act interested in what she is saying. Again PD said to not solve her problems but listen and ask relative questions to assist her in finding the solution herself. You can do it. I have faith in you because I did it and I was just as FU as you are right now and I am a lot better today then I have ever been in my life.

Tim

THANKS! Cannot articulate how much I appreciate the support you & PD have given me. I am so very grateful to have you two helping to guide me along, get me back on my feet when I fall & set me back on my path when I need it most. You feel so lost, so alone that despair starts to eat away at you. What you guys provide is the experience of been there, done that; can empathize with what I am dealing with, feeling & give hope that I can do this, that I will get through this.

Your welcome. I am just passing on that which I have learned. You W still does alot of stuff for you that she does not have to. Cooking, cleaning, calling you on the phone. The one thing about people is they expect instant results and instant gratification when they don't get it they give up. There has been many times that I was about to give up, throw in the towel but I did not. You need to fight this urge and persist because its the right thing to do. In the end as long as you can say you did everything you possibly can do then you will be able to move on with your life no matter happens in your M and be confident you left no stone unturned.

I reread my thread a lot. Your last post really helps me to see how far you have come & shows me how far I have to go. Thanks again Tim,

Kevin

Me too, expecially the days that life kicked me in the gut and I made it through. I like reading those better than the good days because it shows how far I have come.

I am in the other world as well. Just how do you go about disclosing that info here?

I'm there too so look for me in the introduction postings.