Originally Posted By: Distressed67
Pay attention to her. Look her in the eye when she is talking even if she looks away, you keep looking at her. She will come back to you and if your not there she will stop talking. Act interested in what she is saying. Again PD said to not solve her problems but listen and ask relative questions to assist her in finding the solution herself. You can do it. I have faith in you because I did it and I was just as FU as you are right now and I am a lot better today then I have ever been in my life.

Tim


THANKS! Cannot articulate how much I appreciate the support you & PD have given me. I am so very grateful to have you two helping to guide me along, get me back on my feet when I fall & set me back on my path when I need it most. You feel so lost, so alone that despair starts to eat away at you. What you guys provide is the experience of been there, done that; can empathize with what I am dealing with, feeling & give hope that I can do this, that I will get through this.

I reread my thread a lot. Your last post really helps me to see how far you have come & shows me how far I have to go. Thanks again Tim,

Kevin

I am in the other world as well. Just how do you go about disclosing that info here?


Me/W 39/37 T/M 9/6
S 4, D 2
Bomb 7/17/08
OM confirmed 7/23/08
D Filed 7/25/08
D served 9/17/08

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