I understand your frustration. I am frustrated with you. I had thought about my W and I traveling to Boulder to visit with Michele l as well. It sounds like a good idea. If you can add that to the paperwork, (and signed) you may have a good chance. However, you need to get H to visit with you and go to the MC there first. Then use Michele, if you can, as your ace in the hole.
I know that this is an old saying, but it is true. " It is always darkest before the dawn."
Keep your chin up and a sharp Eye on the Green yourself.
I wish I could give you something that will help, but the only thing I can think of is time is on your side.