(((((Julia))))) She isn't well, but she is improved. She went to work today, in any case.
Kerry, I didn't say what I would do for a couple of reasons. Originally I brought up S and D more strongly, but most of the folks here thought it would be better not to put that in the forefront at this point. Also, by not saying, I have the flexibility to do things on my terms, in my time, but knowing that she can't be surprised.
I don't know how she will react. I expect most people would get defensive at first, and probably attack, so I am prepared for that. After it sinks in a bit, I hope that maybe, just maybe, something good comes from it.