Hello ladies! {{{{{T2L}}}}} and {{{{{HOPE}}}}} It's been hectic at work today! But it feels good nonetheless to get things done and make decisions.
So I finally responded to H about his msgs to stop ignoring him. I was very vague and told him no matter what answer I gave didn't matter because he already had an answer in his mind and that is what he truly believed. I said how is my answer going to make a difference in his life now and that knowing the truth would not bring him closer because that is something you should decide for yourself.
Of course he persisted repeatedly for a yes or no answer and for me to stop beating around the bush. I didn't respond after that. He actually went so far as to leaving me a voice mail message yesterday after work. His message said to stop ignorning him and to just give him an answer. The interesting part was that he also said that he received a letter from the court about the D stating that if no action was taken by Jan 1st the petition would be dismissed. He asked me to look over the paperwork again or else I would be stuck married to him forever. He didn't say anything about wanting the D and to just sign because he wanted to move on or that he didn't want to be married to me anymore. So it was a bit odd because if he truly wants this to be over wouldn't he be fighting for me to just sign? Wouldn't he be demanding it to be done and over with? Just my thoughts....
Oh and his cell phone just got shut off today....it just keeps going down for him....
Not sure OW is cut out to handle all this....
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
